Sep 15, 2007

The lessons I learnt so far..

I've learnt
Not to put a full stop to everything. You never know when you will turn back or have a surprising & pleasing U-turn.
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I travelled with someone I dislike during my teen years. The trip made me realised that the person wasnt that bad afterall. I gave myself a chance to know her again. hmm.. all along, it was ME who stopped myself from doing things.

I've learnt
to reintroduce myself.
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During these few months, the new people I met and the new things I done made me realised that I have stopped living for myself for sometime. I am slowly understanding myself.

I've learnt
Life isnt always fair (but that doesnt mean I'll go into some self-bashing or depression).
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Everyone has their rough times (either a lost of a job, friend or relationship, anxiety over the future or just full of crummy situations).
While it is easy to complain about all of the ways these situations we face bring us down, it is more beneficial (I think) to look at the ways in which they didn't break you.

I've learnt we cannot always get what we want / planned

It seems that there is someone of a higher power to determine the route I planned to take. I though that everything was going smoothly but suddenly something would just pop out and it will change or delay the process. Its frustrating sometimes but its really beyond your control. you know what I mean. I am still learning to accept rejection, learning to reject acceptance and still learning to accept not to change the people who are or going to be closed to me.



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